What have you been doing today?

[Halex]

Yes it is.  See how we go, if we cant cop well so it be.

We have given ourselves a time limit. Surely it can only get better.

On the plus side in 1 week he has gained 600g.

 

[judydawn]

Oh Hally what a problem you have there. As far as deworming goes,  I thought the whole family needed to be done if one member has them.

[obbie]

Scary Hally, it will take alot of time and patience.

[Frozzie]

Oh hally you are stronger than me.. The internet thing would have upset me but the worm thing would have sent me over the edge.. I cant handle that sort of thing sends me into meltdown..i would definately be worming everyone as alot of them are highly contagious

[astarra]

Oh Hally - don't know what to say, so just sending hugs. 

[Halex]

Cp & lr took worming tabets, dh & I dont have them but maybe we shoukd take one. Cp didnt have worms.

I was ready to give up yesterday, but thats what veryone does. If every weekend is full of drama, once we go to the us for our trip, he wont be coming back full time, he was never meant to be full time just happened.

[Yvette]

Hally hopefully things will get better once he has been with you for a while and he knows boundaries. Hope he doesn't grow out of his new clothes with all the weight he will be putting on due to your lovely cooking 

[astarra]

Take care Hally. 

[Halex]

I just took a worming tablet too, grossed me out the thought if it.

Waiting to hear from agency.

[cookie1]

It was sensible to take the tablet Hally.

Hally it seems as though you are learning about some of the horrible sides of fostering. It is wise to give yourself a time limit. If it doesn't work out then you have done your best. Think of yourself and family first. I do admire you for what you are doing.

[*suzanne*]

hugs Hally foster parents are wonderful my sister has 3 plus her 4 and doing it on her own don't know how she does it but the kids are wonderful she has done/is doing an amazing job xx

today I've put flanelett sheets on everyone's beds, prepared dinner, bathroom cleaned,  vacuumed and food shopping

[Halex]

Suzanne your sister does really well.

We have had many children come & go. One litte boy for 2 years, lots of respite kids, but not one long term this age that has ever really been looked after properly.

I am sure it will settle down, lets hope so

[*suzanne*]

she has had a few short term as well but the 3 she has now she will have til they are 18 two of them are brother and sister she has had them for nearly 6yrs they came over with her at Christmas and call us auntie and uncle and our parents nanna and grandad and the kids there cousins its so lovely to see these kids loved and nurtured because the first few years of their lives were horrific and still have moments

[Cornish Cream]

What a traumatic weekend for you Hally.Like Cookie says you are experiencing the horrible side of fostering at the moment.Big hug

[Emme]

Oh Hally, you have had a very stressful time.  Hoping things settle for you soon/  Big Hug 

Marie