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Offline astarra

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Re: What have you been doing today?
« Reply #405 on: June 29, 2012, 11:34:22 pm »
All I have been doing today so far is  :'( ing. And trying to get through the shock.
Had a midwife appnt yesterday morning, she couldn't  find the bubs heartbeat, sent in to the hospital for a "reasurrance" scan, which actually did the opposite of reasurring, our baby's heart had stopped beating - at 18wks pregnant, this came as such a huge shock, especially after everything was perfect at the 12wks scan.  :'(  I just cannot believe it. Am being brought on on Monday. :'( :'( :'(
Still, I have a wonderful DH and 3 gorgeous daughters.  :)
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« Reply #406 on: June 29, 2012, 11:41:34 pm »
So sorry to hear your heartbreaking news.  Your family will be a much needed comfort to you.  Hugs to you.
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« Reply #407 on: June 29, 2012, 11:53:15 pm »
Astarra, i am truly sorry to hear this terrible news. My heart goes  out to you.

Be strong &  let the love of your family get you all through this horrible  time.

Sending a gigantic hug & love & strength to you.

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« Reply #408 on: June 29, 2012, 11:54:16 pm »
Astarra do sorry to hear about your loss. Big hugs xxx
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« Reply #409 on: June 29, 2012, 11:58:51 pm »
Astarraso sorry and warm hugs from me as well.

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« Reply #410 on: June 30, 2012, 12:00:02 am »
That is such bad news astarra, no-one wants to hear that outcome.  I share your tears and admire your strength, it must be devastating for the rest of the family too.  Heartfelt condolences to you all  :-* :-*
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« Reply #411 on: June 30, 2012, 12:17:19 am »
Astarra - have just read your news and I'm so very sorry - such a terrible shock - my thoughts and prayers are very much with you and your family.  Do take extra care of yourself. . .  we're all thinking of you . . .

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« Reply #412 on: June 30, 2012, 12:23:28 am »
Astarra I am so sorry to hear the news. You poor thing. That's terrible news. Please take care. Lots of hugs from all of us. :(
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« Reply #413 on: June 30, 2012, 12:27:05 am »
Astarra, how absolutely devastating :'( :'( :'(
I'm so sorry you have to go through this. All my love and big hugs coming your way :-* :-*

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« Reply #414 on: June 30, 2012, 12:37:40 am »
So sorry for you and your family astarra. Take care  :-*

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« Reply #415 on: June 30, 2012, 02:17:44 am »
Terrible news astarra, my heart goes out to you, your husband and family. Please take care.

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Re: What have you been doing today?
« Reply #416 on: June 30, 2012, 02:28:24 am »
Astarra
 its really hard for people to understand  going through this loss, unless people have actually been there.
Even though we offer our condolences and symphony - nothing can heal this wound except for time. 

l wish l could wrap you up in a blanket of love and caring at this time of anguish.
Our thoughts and prays are with you and your family  now, and when you go in on Monday.

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Re: What have you been doing today?
« Reply #417 on: June 30, 2012, 03:06:49 am »
Astarra, my heart is aching for you now. I am sitting here crying for you too. :'( :'(

I am sending you hugs and strength to get you through this weekend.
there are so many questions, answers and the why...


it takes time, lots of love and understanding from everyone.
its bloody tough, I know.

We lost our first bub too.

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« Reply #418 on: June 30, 2012, 03:42:34 am »
Astarra what devasting news.  My heart goes out to you and your family.
Lots of love, take care xx
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« Reply #419 on: June 30, 2012, 03:55:50 am »
Thank you all for...everything.  :-*
I would be lying if I said I wasn't devestated, still in shock and very sad.  :'(  Especially as it is AGAIN. We lost preg #2 at 13wks (the day after we announced it to the world), and I feel like I am reliving that time again with another blow added to it. Hoping and praying all goes well on Monday.
Thank you all again. Will go and hug my DDs again now!  :)
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