Dearest Gert, it is wonderful that the two of you were able to spend these part weeks preparing for what we all one day have to face. You are so right most of us don't, and sure have set an example to us all.
Gert you should be so proud of yourself, The love and care you have shown Ted is truly inspirational. He is at peace now!
Please, please sit back, have a drink and take good care of yourself, you deserve it!!!!
xxxxxx