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Title: For Our Men Folk
Post by: mcmich on May 08, 2013, 08:48:38 am
About 4weeks ago my DH (Don) went for his annual check-up at the GP's. I'm so glad that he does go for this check - so many men don't go for regular health checks. He had nothing invasive, just blood tests and returned a positive PSA (prostate) this doesn't always mean cancer, just an indication. Based on this test, Don had a biopsy and it turns out he has a 5.4cm tumour. He had absoloutely no symptoms - a bit unusual for that sized tumour.

On Monday, 13th May he has opted for a radical prostatectomy (there are lots of options). We are hopeful that it is all contained and further treatment won't be necessary.

Please, encourage all the precious men in your life, no matter what the age (Don is 53) to have a PSA blood test - doesn't mean they have cancer, just an indicator.

 :)
Title: Re: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: *suzanne* on May 08, 2013, 08:54:37 am
Michele positive thoughts to you both,and scary that there were no symptoms.  although my dh is only 39 he has a yearly checkup with his doctor as does my dad,   thanks for a very good message to all the darling men in our lives xx
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Post by: Amy :-) on May 08, 2013, 09:04:45 am
Oh Mich, how scary :o :( Lots of love to you both, I hope everything goes smoothly :-*

Silly SD threw out his bowel screening kit last year >:(
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Wonder on May 08, 2013, 09:16:49 am
Much so sorry to hear the news. This a great reminder to ensure regular checks are kept up by both men and women.

All the best for next week.
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: cookie1 on May 08, 2013, 09:22:13 am
Thanks for that Michele. I was actually present when my DH had his examination last year. He had that and I had my Pap smear and we got our annual blood test results all at the same time. The GP thought it was a great idea.
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Post by: judydawn on May 08, 2013, 09:27:29 am
Thanks for the posting Michele and good luck to you both on the 13th. :-* :-*
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Post by: Cuilidh on May 08, 2013, 09:29:05 am
Gosh that's scary - especially that he had no symptoms with a tumour of that size.  Men tend to be reluctant to have these checks.  

I only hope Don comes through his operation with flying colours.  My thoughts are with you both.
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Deniser on May 08, 2013, 10:10:01 am
Thanks for sharing McMitch. Wishing you both all the best and hope all goes well.
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Post by: deedub on May 08, 2013, 11:19:21 am
Wishing you & Don all the best Michelle.
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Post by: Katiej on May 08, 2013, 11:24:09 am
Thank you for the reminder.

Best wishes to you both xx
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: goldfish on May 08, 2013, 11:37:41 am
Mich, I've got everything crossed that all goes well with the op. and that its all clear from there on in!!!  Lots of love and the best of the best good wishes to you both ...!
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: MEP on May 08, 2013, 11:57:38 am
Yes, thank you for the reminder. All the best with the operation.

Take care x
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: meganjane on May 08, 2013, 12:04:41 pm
Thank you Michelle.

All the very best to your DH for his op. How lucky that you did this routine test.
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: KarenH on May 08, 2013, 12:06:59 pm
Mich and Don - all the best.  Thanks for sharing this at what must be a worrying time for both of you.  Our thoughts are with you.
xxxx
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Kimmyh on May 08, 2013, 12:07:59 pm
Thank you for sharing Michele. Such an important thing. Wishing you both all the best for the 13th xox
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Cornish Cream on May 08, 2013, 06:50:25 pm
This is a very thought provoking reminder to make sure our loved ones get regular checkups.If your post saves one life Michele it will be fantastic.
The very best to you and Don. :-* :-*
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: droverjess on May 08, 2013, 08:13:27 pm
Thanks for posting this Mich. we are particularly thinking of you both and hope all is straightforward on Monday.

My DH had his prostate checked after the totally unexpected kidney tumour was discovered.
id like to mention in this topical thread that kidney cancer is often silent, and was only discovered by an ultra sound scan.
Nothing showed in the bloods at all, it was an 8 cm tumour. It turned out to be a clear cell carcinoma.

DH had had periodic episodes of fatigue and sweats on and off for a while and had a lot of tests 2 yrs ago. He was told he was fine, he clearly was not, we should have pushed harder. He just accepted that he'd have to live with it. Anyone else with these symptoms  or unexplained troubles should ask for an ultra sound scan, even if the bloods are clear.

It was acid reflux and nausea this time that sent him to the Dr. It may or may not have been connected, but the cancer was found and has been dealt with. He is still recovering post op, but feels much better.

We send our very best wishes to you both. Xxx
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: mcmich on May 08, 2013, 08:22:20 pm
Thank you for all the well wishes - very kind. Don was very touched by your concern.  :)

Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: obbie on May 08, 2013, 09:39:57 pm
Michelle, hope all goes well for your DH

My DH has that screening PSA every year.
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Halex on May 08, 2013, 11:49:41 pm
So sorry to read ths mich. Yhank goodness he went for his check up.

Wishing it goes well with the op  & that will be it.

 :-*

Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Yvette on May 09, 2013, 02:33:48 am
Thinking of you Mich please let us know how it goes  :)
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Post by: Aussie Brenda on May 09, 2013, 03:24:31 am
Mich and Don all the best for The. 13th and a speedy recovery .  Love and live everyday.
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Alexis on May 09, 2013, 03:47:38 am
So sorry to hear your news. Any op is a worry. All the best for the 13th and keep positive.
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: astarra on May 09, 2013, 03:48:42 am
Thanx for sharing Michele.  :-*
Thinking of you both and wishing Don the best of care for his op and recovery.  :-* :-* :-*
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Emme on May 09, 2013, 04:32:35 am
Thanks for sharing Michele.  Thinking of you both and wishing Don a speedy recovery from his operation.

Marie
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Post by: achookwoman on May 09, 2013, 06:44:18 am
Michele,  best wishes for the 13 th.  he is so lucky to have you to look after him post OP.   
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: judydawn on May 14, 2013, 12:51:17 am
Michelle, just wondering how DH is after his op yesterday?
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: goldfish on May 14, 2013, 12:54:25 am
Hoping all went well Mich... Been thinking of you and DH.
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: obbie on May 14, 2013, 12:57:01 am
Hope all is well Michelle. :)
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Emme on May 14, 2013, 01:21:25 am
Hope all went well mcmich.   :)

Marie
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Post by: Cuilidh on May 14, 2013, 01:43:16 am
I was thinking of you both yesterday.  Hope everything is well.
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Yvette on May 14, 2013, 01:57:18 am
Me too Mich any results yet? Fingers are crossed  :)
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Post by: Aussie Brenda on May 14, 2013, 02:24:14 am
Thinking of you both and hope all went as planned.
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: mcmich on May 14, 2013, 03:05:45 am
Thankyou all for the well wishes.

Don flew through the op as expected as he was so well leading up to surgery. He's up and in a chair today.
Just the wait for the pathology results now. Hopefully home on Thursday  :D
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: obbie on May 14, 2013, 03:36:24 am
Great news Michelle.
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Cuilidh on May 14, 2013, 04:34:32 am
That's all sounding good.  Fingers crossed for a favourable pathology result.
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Yvette on May 14, 2013, 04:41:05 am
Great Mich did they say how long pathology would be?
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Post by: Aussie Brenda on May 14, 2013, 04:57:07 am
Great stuff, good to hear all seems great.
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Emme on May 14, 2013, 06:08:03 am
Sounding good Mcmich, fingers crossed for good pathology result

Marie
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: judydawn on May 14, 2013, 06:09:47 am
Thanks for the update Michele xx
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: astarra on May 14, 2013, 06:56:12 am
Thanx for the update Mich. Hope the path report is good.  :)
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Cornish Cream on May 14, 2013, 08:32:05 am
Thanks for the update Michele. :-*
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Kimmyh on May 14, 2013, 11:11:55 am
Great news so far Michele. Thank you xox
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Amy :-) on May 14, 2013, 11:20:10 am
Glad to hear things are going well Mich :-* :-*
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: cookie1 on May 14, 2013, 12:48:48 pm
Thanks for letting us know Michele. I'm pleased he had no dramas.
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Post by: Deniser on May 14, 2013, 02:20:17 pm
Pleased all well and hoping for good results.
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Jadey on May 18, 2013, 06:10:06 am
Just catching up now, I'm so sorry to hear this mich but very glad they caught it and he has done well throughout the op. I do hope this gives him the all clear from now on.
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: mcmich on May 24, 2013, 05:54:24 am
DH back to the specialist today for pathology results. Best news ever - surgery has got everything.  ;D

We are off to book flights and accommodation for Melbourne.  :D :D
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: dragongirly on May 24, 2013, 06:02:34 am
Great news Michele!
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Wonder on May 24, 2013, 06:21:20 am
Fantastic news Michelle, you must both be over the moon.
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Post by: obbie on May 24, 2013, 06:23:58 am
Great news Michelle
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: goldfish on May 24, 2013, 06:36:25 am
Brilliant news,  mich...incredible relief for the two of you!!!! So pleased for you!!! :)
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Post by: Cuilidh on May 24, 2013, 06:46:34 am
I feel so happy and relieved for you.  Such wonderful news on a Friday afternoon.
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Post by: Yvette on May 24, 2013, 06:49:55 am
Mich that is great news so happy for you both  :)
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: mcmich on May 24, 2013, 06:50:39 am
Thankyou all. We are extremely happy and grateful that it was detected early and surgery is all that was required.

A couple of weeks and Don will be back at work. If he had an office job he would be back sooner.  ;D
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Post by: Alexis on May 24, 2013, 06:52:17 am
So very happy for you both. ;D
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Post by: astarra on May 24, 2013, 07:00:42 am
Wonderful news Michele, enjoy your trip.  :D
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Amy :-) on May 24, 2013, 07:06:43 am
 :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

Happy faces all around!!! So relieved for you both Mich :-*
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Post by: Mama Fergie on May 24, 2013, 07:12:39 am
Fantastic news for you both Michele  :D
Enjoy your trip to Melbourne  ;D
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Post by: judydawn on May 24, 2013, 07:13:04 am
Great news on two fronts Michele, firstly DH will be fine and secondly we get to meet you both at Chookie's lunch.  Excellent!
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Cornish Cream on May 24, 2013, 08:31:17 am
Just logged on to read this wonderful news Michele.You both must be so relieved.It's made my day. :-* :-*
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Post by: mcmich on May 24, 2013, 08:53:42 am
We are both so thankful and looking forward to meeting everyone at Chookie and Ral's.  ;D ;D
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Post by: *suzanne* on May 24, 2013, 09:38:05 am
great news Michele ;D
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: mcmich on May 24, 2013, 09:58:28 am
The original reason for posting about Don was to raise awareness of prostate cancer. It is worth encouraging the men in your life to have a blood test. Don had the best outcome as the cancer was detected early. As he didn't have any symptoms it could have been a very different outcome.

We are so thankful and hope this encourages other men to have a PSA blood test.  :)
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Post by: Frozzie on May 24, 2013, 10:38:44 am
Omg so glad they caught it michelle and now i understand why you are wanting to celebrate... So happy it all worked out xx
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: obbie on May 24, 2013, 10:49:30 am
Michelle, My DH has one every year, and a full hour medical. :)

The best money we spend on ourselves, well worth the  tests.

So glad the results were good.
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: achookwoman on May 24, 2013, 11:05:10 am
Michele,  this is the very best news.   I mean the good report.  Coming to meet all for lunch is a bonus.  We look forward to catching up and meeting Don.
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Post by: Kimmyh on May 24, 2013, 11:15:43 am
Brilliant news Michele. Very happy for you both.
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Post by: chrissa on May 24, 2013, 12:07:36 pm
How relieved you both must feel.

Very happy to hear your good news
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Post by: Deniser on May 24, 2013, 03:02:46 pm
So pleased to hear the good news. Timely reminder for all our men.
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Emme on May 24, 2013, 09:39:15 pm
So glad to hear your news mcmich, It has really made my day.  Take care

Marie
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: droverjess on May 28, 2013, 02:56:05 pm
Just seen this, hooray.
So pleased, and relieved and know exactly how you feel.
Xxxxxxxxxx
Have a great trip xxxx
Title: Re: For Our Men Folk
Post by: Jadey on June 09, 2013, 05:35:47 am
Obviously I'm way behind but that's awesome news Mich! xxxxx