The Thread killer

[astarra]

Oh Rob - I am so sorry for your loss.  
All my 3 were after losses too. It is not easy. She will heal so much quicker after tho. I hope all goes well, glad your kids are unaware.  

[astarra]

And how are you coping with it all yourself, Rob?

[obbie]

Rob, it a hard thing to go through, for you and your wife.
I have been there, and coped because I did talk about it, Alot...

sending hugs to you both.

[*suzanne*]

thoughts your way Rob xx

[judydawn]

Sorry to hear about the reason for the D & C Rob, you can't be in 2 places at once so I'm sure your DW is happy you are keeping the children occupied.  They certainly don't need to know these things.  Love to you both 

[Kimmyh]

My thoughts are with you and your wife rob. All the best and sending big hugs xox

[Delightful Den]

We have never had to go through such a loss Rob so I can't say I know how you are feeling. Sometimes people forget that the father also feels the loss of a miscarriage, not the same way that the mother does but they feel it all the same. 

We are here if you need to get things off your chest.

[*suzanne*]

how true dd, my DH talked a lot about our loss and it helped us both immensely

[astarra]

I just told DH about your situation, Rob, he sends his thoughts. 

[Emme]

Thoughts are with you and your DW Rob, take care

Marie

[EmeraldSue]

Rob, I'm sorry to hear about the miscarriage. It must be a very sad and emotional time for both of you. Take care

[cookie1]

Like Den I have not had to go through this. Do take care of yourself as we'll, my thoughts are with you both.

[Greyhoundmum]

Hi Rob, so sorry to hear this news. I have never personally gone through it, but professionally as a midwife I been part of pregnancy and birth loss .   I think talking it through is certainly the best way to help ease the pain rather than keeping it bottled up. thoughts are with you.

[tarasis]

Um, wow. Thanks everyone. I'll update properly a little later once the kids are in bed. They haven't done anything today but they are keeping my DW in over night (wouldn't even let her home to pick up stuff, so I was running around a bit) and doing two different exams tomorrow (scrapping the womb and checking the filopian tubes (spelling error) with a cam via the belly button. She'll be having a general anesthetic for it. It may be an ectopic pregnancy, oddly enough her hormones are actually up for the Doc visit last week.

Back later.

[Frozzie]

Oh rob i,didnt realise it was because of a miscarriage.. How very sad.. I was lucky i guess you could say to have never beenthrough something like that so cant say i know how you feel but can only imagine.. unfortunately you hear so many do.. We are all ears if u need to get things off your chest.. Hugs x